I don't know if I will hit publish or not, I guess if you are reading this I decided to do so.
Athina. Ah, where do I start?
This past week she broke up with another boyfriend, and got back with her ex husband within 48 hours.
This isn't the first weird get together break up she has had. They are ALL like that. I love you on FB one moment, broke up and over and moved on to the next dude in 24 hours literally at times.
This is not stability for my grandkids.
But it is not illegal. There is literally nothing we can do, I know people like to think so, but honestly? Nope. You would have to get video of her having sex in front of them, LITERALLY to even make it a case. Mama can be a ho. Isn't that wonderful?
Last week she wanted to run away to California because her sister who she has only met once in her life, wanted her to so the kids could have a "real loving family environment, real love and stability".
Lady what the hell do you think Cameron, Drew and I have been doing? Oh, that's right, you don't know your sister MUCH LESS US!!!!
She and her "ex? husband" were together for a year, got married, lasted 5 weeks and were going to get annulled.
She had a new boyfriend moved in in about a week. He moved away and had a new girlfriend with a small baby calling himself "Daddy" to it in 3 days.
Yes 3 days.
Before this, they broke up before they were married, they were gooey I love you's on FB one day, the next they were broke up, the next he was back with his girlfriend he left for Athina, she was dating again in 5 days.
Another time, they broke up and that girl added Athina as her "friend" on FB and they swapped smarmy friendly posts back and forth.
When Athina got back with him, they deleted each other.
Athina has had 4 boyfriends since their breakup in July. One for a few months, another for a month, then the last one about 2 months. She ALWAYS MOVES THEM IN HER HOUSE!!
But...
We liked the last one.
He was sweet, very respectful of us and our family time, knew his place, a good role model for the kids, even a Father himself who befriended Cameron, they had an understanding. They even went out together with the boys once a week. It was almost too good to be true.
Well guess it was.
We hate her ex husband. He is a control freak, his family thinks our boys should do every holiday with THEM. Not Athina's Mother, or more importantly THEIR FATHER much less us, but THEM.
His parents have 4 kids, and a new baby.
Last year you might remember how we did without our babies on Christmas and the year before because THEY HAD TO HAVE THEM.
I know Athina is at fault for allowing this, and I am not saying her husband is not important but he was NOT HER HUSBAND when this occured.
And with her track record can you blame us for wanting to lose time and holiday's over her "flavor of the week"? We had no idea he would become her husband.
So you can also imagine our joy when she married him the day after her divorce was final from Cameron.
And how the kids referred to him as "Daddy" by his wishes. Remember all that?
Well now he is "back" and in 2 days has already claimed his Patriarch status and ruler of the household.
I saw his Mom post to Athina's account, she is "so happy to have her daughter and HER grandkids back."
Can you see my dilemma?
If anything in Athina's life was concrete and not so bi-polarly chosen I would be happy that some stranger welcomed my grandchildren as their own.
But I realized the sinister undertone.
We are back. And we are taking over....again.
Yep I am a little pissed.
9 comments:
Oh holy crap. I had no idea! I thought she was (more or less) happily married to the guy...that things were okay.
SUCK. I am so sorry! I hope someday she gets her shit together. Thank goodness the kids have you (and Drew and Cameron, of course)! I shudder to think what would become of them if they didn't.
Thank you Lori! ((HUGS)) I know my feelings on the matter are very valid but it helps to be backed up.
Yeah she lived with him 1 yr. Broke up 5 months. Got back together for 4 months, got married, stayed together 5 weeks. That was 6 months and 4 boyfriends ago.
With their history you can see why I am leary and rightfully so. I would bet all my money on it. She cannot, for whatever reason, be happy for more than a week. She runs from her problems, tries to find love in all the wrong places. I can't help but think she's an idiot. Cameron worked every day of their marriage, loved and supported her, the kid's DAD! She HAD IT ALL. She is so stupid.
Also, by this nature of her and Caleb's relationship, we lose things like holidays, memories, for what? Them to break up again?? His family is NOT to take any more precedence until they can stay together for like 5 yrs or something, then I will recognize her marriage and family with him as valid, until then, I consider him another bipolar manic episode and I have proof to back this up that I am right.
Just a week ago wanting to move to Cali, damn Cameron and us and the legal papers stating she can't. Now she is here and back with him. Her sis in Cali? She put on her FB a little bit ago when she saw Athina's new relationsnip status (married to Caleb) WTF? I thought you just broke up with Austin less than a week ago? Married?
See? SHe does NOT know her. Maybe now she sees what Cameron has told her about her sister and her manic episodes. It is not normal.
Jeez, that is alot to deal with. I guess one small bright side to this whole mess is that she is not spitting babies out like a pez dispenser with every new guy... HUGS!!!
Olly you are on the nose for that one. I am really amazed it hasn't happened (knock on wood) and Rylan is 3 1/2. She does have Mirena though so I am sure that's the biggest help there. I would hate to see her go down that road, it wouldn't effect me but it would my babies lives and let's face it, that is all that matters here. I don't have enough in me left anymore to worry about someone else's kids. ACK!! And I would because they would be the siblings to the boys.
Oh, God, no. No more babies for her. Has she had the Mirena ever since Rylan? Because if he's 3.5, that means its effectiveness starts coming to an end in only 1.5 years.
Augh.
She sounds like a dumb girl who is desperate for love. Yeah, she had it all with Cameron. Too bad she didn't see it then.
On a whim, I just went and checked out her facebook. I'm (obvs.) not her friend, but I was able to access her wall. Now I see what you mean--she's married to Caleb now (they were able to *work it out*), but not two weeks ago she was all "I love you babe" to a different guy. January 20! Good lord. The girl needs serious therapy.
Has she not the tiniest clue how much trouble she would be in if she took the boys to California? I can't get over the fact that she was even considering that.
Lori you are so right on the Mirena. It has entered my mind.
OMG if you ever get bored go back to July. I will message you the names you can click and get the whole picture. You will seriously not believe the little Peyton Place going on with her. In a nutshell, they have NO idea what a real relationship is, or the word love. It's sad really.
But the saddest is my babies are being drug all through this drama. Thank goodness Cameron has joint custody so we have them 3-4 days of the week.
Oh and the joint custody is the BIGGEST reason she cannot move out of state. Instant charges. She knows this.
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