Well Cameron and Athina's divorce was final yesterday and today Athina marries Caleb.
But that's not all!!
She makes the boys call him Daddy and Cameron, Cameron.
This isn't going to go over well. I won't even get into the disrespect and wrongness of that. I think it is obvious when a Father is in the children's lives, all their lives and constantly? Another man does not earn that title much less that quickly.
I will remind you this is the guy Athina lived with a year, broke up with 8 months and sent the boys to live with me, then got back with him a few months ago.
Wanna take bets on how long this one lasts? LOL Or maybe how long until Cameron goes over there and straightens out the Daddy situation? I give it, oh, 4 minutes ago.
Just so you know I think step parents can be wonderful (HELLO? DREW!?) But in our situation there was no father around, Drew became Cameron's Father and earned the title. I also appreciate if Caleb takes care of our boys, and even loves them and they love him. That is great, actually it is preferable for me to make me know they are loved and cared for.
But don't overstep your boundaries Caleb.
And Athina? I know this is part of your little bipolar whims and these people all play a part in your fantasy world? But do not drag our babies through it. You won't like us when we are angry.
That is all.
7 comments:
Makes them call him Cameron? This is SO wrong.
Sue
Cameron needs to put a stop to this. My stepkids do not call me dad or anything other than step-dad, but they will both tell you that I am more of a father to them than the sperm doner.
She's an idiot.
My daughter divorced and remarried. My grandchildren from the first marriage call their stepdad by his first name. They know he is their stepdad and that he loves them. They also know their dad is their dad -- and that is what they call him.
It is wrong to confuse the kids. The mom should be ashamed of herself.
This actually started a couple of months ago, Ayden stated something and said "Daddy Caleb" I didn't like it then because they weren't even married but they still referred to Cameron as Daddy.
Then 2 weekends ago Ayden said Daddy referring to Caleb and Cameron referring to, well, Cameron. I said something right then. I said Cameron is your Daddy, Caleb is Mommy's friend, you can love Caleb but you need to still call Cameron Daddy.
Then the other day, Ayden called him Caleb so maybe it worked? I am hoping so. :(
WHOAH! I missed this post... idk how, but I did......
They call Cameron, Cameron???
WHAT THE F!!!!!!
Im angry for you... for those boys. That is 100% not right AT ALL.
I'm just now reading back. That is so awful. Why would she try to get them to not call their dad daddy? I would be so furious if I were you. Those poor kids, I'm hoping she doesn't totally screw them up.
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